Not Your Container

I am not

the jar

you pour your trembling into.


Do not mistake

my silence

for agreement.


I give you the floor—


polished,

open,


wide as an auditorium

before a pep rally.


But I do not cheer there.


You speak

in borrowed thunder,


call it concern,


call it

just asking for a friend.


But I can smell fear

when it tries to dress itself

as logic.


Your what-ifs

hover like gnats.


Your limits

reach for my shoulders

like a coat

two sizes too small.


No.


What you fear

is not mine

to inherit.


What you imagine

is not mine

to perform.


I am not

a storage unit


for your unfinished healing.


I am not a trend

to be studied,


predicted,


or softened

into something convenient.


My reactions

are not algorithms.


My follow-through

is not a social experiment.


My life

is not a group project.


I listen

because I am disciplined.


I pause

because I am powerful.


But agreement—


that is sacred.


And I do not lease

my spirit

to projections.


If you tremble,


tremble honestly.


But do not hand me

your shaking


and call it love.

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